Thursday, October 16, 2008

Fear


I never thought of myself as a scaredy cat kind of person. I like scary movies, I don't have to check under the bed for possible hiding people in hotel rooms (my husband), I am not afraid of my dark basement (Brian Jones), you get the idea. So recently I was faced with this fear thing, and it took me by surprise.

Last week some of our staff went on a retreat and Stephanie and I had the opportunity to go on a ropes course during some of our free time. It was a beautiful fall day up near the Poconos, the leaves were starting to change and there wasn't a breeze to be found. We get harnessed up and Stephanie takes off cruising through the course like she was part chimpanzee. So it's my turn, and I froze, completely scared out of my mind. I could no more take a step off that platform than I could lift a building. What was crazy about the experience was that the fear was completely unexpected. So I stood there frozen while a wrestling tournament was taking place in my mind. The logical side of my brain argued that my harness would hold me, the rope swing before me was something I had used a thousand times with my kids in the backyard, and Steph. was right in front of me cruising through the course with ease. The irrational side of my brain was arguing every reason that I would plunge to my death if I were to even think about stepping off that ledge.

Needless to say, with Stephanie's encouraging words (or the threat of telling my kids what a chicken I was if I didn't do it), I managed to take that first step. After that I was fine, the fear subsided and I made it through the course and was able to crash land like no other.

So the follow up left me thinking, what else scares me? Do I let fear stand in my way of doing things that would help me do my job better, be a better friend, wife, mother? I have to say, fear probably stops me from doing a lot of things that I'm unaware of. I am trying to be more in tune with that feeling and not let it keep me from accomplishing what God has set me out to do.

Isaiah 41:10
So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.

Thursday, September 11, 2008

www.helpoutyourneighbor.com

Tuesday evening I had the opportunity to attend a town hall meeting at Perkiomen Valley Township. One of our faithful volunteers is fighting a battle reminiscent of David and Goliath. Her parent's land is being taken from them under the covering of "imminent domain". They are not being offered fair market value for their property, but more importantly, they don't want to move or sell the land.

Laura Dietrich is not only trying to help fight for her parents' rights, she is also helping fight for her father's life who is ill with brain cancer. Laura and her family need our prayer support as well as our actions. Please visit www.helpoutyourneighbor.com and help Laura and her parents in this battle.

Friday, September 5, 2008

Back to School



I am a sucker for the back to school season. I love this time of year; school buses on the road, kids at bus stops, new back packs, the smell of new crayons, you get the idea. Even before I had children, seeing kids at the bus stop put a smile on my face. Now that I have children of my own, I still feel that same excitement but there's a twist.

Sending Emma to school 4 years ago for the first time just about sent me over the edge. The thought of someone else being responsible for my baby during the day, teaching her lessons, making sure she remained safe, keeping her from getting her feelings hurt... This did not sit well with me and I moped around feeling quite sorry for myself for days. She was thrilled and thrived in the school environment and slowly I came around too. What other choice did I have?

Well, fast forward a few years and it is now Ethan's turn. I felt very confident that I wouldn't be effected in the same way. He is a boy and I had been through it before, so the night before school when I turned into a crazy whirling tornado I was taken by surprise. As I was packing enough lunch for him to last a week and making sure all of his forms were in his bookbag for the 5th time, my husband looked over at me and laughed out loud. I knew what I was doing and I was not happy. I sat on my couch and had a good cry.

New beginnings, as exciting as they are can be very painful too. That's where I feel we are in Valley Kids. We are entering a new beginning. As our church continues to grow it is exciting and awesome, but at the same time painful. We need more volunteers and people are use to doing things certain ways, change is difficult but the benefits are huge and the rewards immense!

God gave each of us this incredible gift and the coolest part is, we can give it away as many times as we want and it never runs out. I look forward to sharing the exciting plans for the upcoming year in Valley Kids this weekend, Sept. 7th at 1:00pm. I hope you will join us as we explore the year ahead. It's going to be a great one!

Tuesday, August 5, 2008

Classroom Design - Your feedback wanted!



We are in the process of painting our classrooms and giving them a more "kid friendly" atmosphere. Our building has been a multipurpose building housing all of our ministry areas, but in the spring, the space will be designated as a children's building. As we prepare for that transition we are trying to create a fun and exciting atmosphere.

From the beginning of our church life each classroom identified itself with an animal; ducks, bears, turtles, etc. In this interim time, before we deck out the building with a wild and fun movie theatre feel, I'm curious to know what you think about saying good bye to our animals. Strictly using the age of the child to identify the room.

Thank you for your feedback!

Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Inappropriate

Yesterday my children and I were watching television when one of those funny wireless commercials came on. It was the one about being on vacation and not getting the call that the family was headed to a nude beach on accident. Well, in my family no question is off limits so my eight year old was full of them... "Why would anyone want to go naked on the beach?" "Wouldn't you get sunburned?" "Do you think they put sunscreen on their behinds?" You get the point....

Well I tried the route of "In other countries they do things differently." But my 5 year old piped up and stated that he thought it was inappropriate to be naked in front of other people. The statement was an interesting one because it was such a big word, I wondered if he even knew what it meant.

We discussed what it meant to be inappropriate and I was impressed and his ability to articulate what that means to a five year old. He was right on. I walked away with a clearer understanding that my kids are listening. They do hear the lessons I try to get across, and even when it appears that no one is home, they are.

Monday, July 21, 2008

Camp Reflections

We finished up Kids' Camp Sunday this weekend with a packed house. Our final number for children attending the camp was 959! We ask children to bring their parents to church with them on Sunday and receive their camp shirts. It was an awesome weekend seeing so many new faces.

I had a volunteer stop and talk to me about how impressed he was with our camp and how it was run. He made the statement that he could tell we were "supported from the top down." I had to stop and think about what that meant exactly, but he hit the nail on the head. I have never been involved with a project in which every single person on staff took such a large role in reaching the final product.

There is no way we could pull off a production the size of camp without the support of our staff and interns. I hope that each of them knows how much I appreciate their hard work and support. As we grow as a church, my hope is that our children's ministry team will be able to take on more of the duties and relieve some of the stress camp takes on other departments. Our team took this opportunity to grow together and I am excited about what the future holds in Valley Kids.

Along with our incredible staff, the volunteers at CCV blew me away! There were countless individuals who met weekly for the months leading up to camp, gave generous financial support, and helped out with camp itself. We had over 300 volunteers helping to make this event possible. God took this opportunity to really show me how unique and wonderful people are. It was an honor meeting so many new and wonderful people.

And finally, the reason we do this... the kids. The children coming to camp had such a wonderful experience. There is nothing like the feeling of 400 children in one room worshipping, participating in dramas, and having a great time with you. It is an honor to serve God.

Thursday, July 17, 2008

Kids' Camp Day 1

Day 1 - 803 children ages 4 - 5th grade attended their first day at our Big Top circus. The experience was unbelievable. The energy in the room could literally be felt. Have 400 + kids screaming back the bible verse Phillipians 4:13, "I can do everything through him who gives me strength," was truly a powerful moment.

Today we set the stage for the camp, introducing the idea of BIG dreams. Children were inspired to dream big and imagine a future with purpose.